Oh? don’t know what offbeat wedding is??? Well here is my quick run down. Offbeat wedding is like the knot, or zola but for nearly weds that might want something a little different. Offbeat weddings aims towards all inclusive weddings and being able to provide services and vetted vendor reocmmendations for those who are differently abled, LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, non monogamous individuals, and so much more.

Posing is something I’ve never felt like I’m particularly great at. For a long time, I’d watch other photographers effortlessly guide people into the perfect angles and think, how do they do that?

But recently, someone told me, “You’re really good at giving direction.” And something about that clicked.

Oh… it’s direction I’m good at.

If you’re here then you’re probably either planning on booking a session, or wondering how to even prepare for your session. Whether you’re doing a family session, a engagement session, or a boudoir session, getting ready for your photoshoot can feel a bit overwhelming….

Why is this important? Lets begin here, Why am i writing this? Well because neurodivergence is something that is really important to me. As someone who is neurodivergent myself sometimes i see that people will often avoid weddings, or not stay the whole time, etc because maybe they feel they’re to much. What do I mean by too much? well I mean like the sounds are too loud, theres lots of people, or to many.

Intro: Living the Day I’ve Spent Years Capturing

As a photographer, I’ve witnessed tons and tons of love stories unfold! each one unique, and beautiful in their own ways. I’ve cried during strangers’ vows, fluffed countless dresses and ties, tracked down missing boutonnieres, and quietly documented tearful first looks. I thought I knew weddings.

When they reached out about doing a couples session with their dogs while I was visiting Asheville, North Carolina, I was all in. If you didn’t know anything about me, you should know I married a human from Asheville! So It worked out perfectly, I already had plans to visit friends and family in the area (and celebrate my sister-in-law’s birthday). Therefore it became a little trip full of joy and silly moments

When Alyssa and O'Shea told me they chose a serene cabin nestled near Mount Rainier in Washington, to celebrate their wedding day I was very excited to be a part of this celebration and union. They were surrounded by their closest friends and family embracing the intimate atmosphere. Truly making the day feel warm and personal. The natural beauty of the location added an authentic and peaceful backdrop to their vows.

Okay, why am I writing this? Because I’m passionate…like, really really passionate….about being an ADHD photographer, living life as a neurodivergent creative, and connecting with others who are in this same, beautifully chaotic boat. Don’t forget I’m a therapist too :) Oh you didnt know that! Well…go follow my instagram and tiktok to keep up with all things mental health and photography! (OH did i just get distracted…YUPPPP)

We weren’t exactly sure how to pull it off at first, but ZySeer took the lead and reached out to the Tucson Museum of Art, and honestly? BEST. MOVE. EVER. This place may not be an old-school European museum with marble busts and gold frames, but it is full of modern soul, diversity, and just enough edge to make it the perfect backdrop for these two lovebirds.

There’s something incredibly special about getting to photograph people through all the chapters—especially the ones that involve growing bellies, goofy dog energy, and salty wind blowing through your partner’s beard. These are the moments we’ll want to remember: the in-between, the messy, the magic.